One Strong Belief

One Strong Belief by Buster Benson

It is easy in the world to live after the world’s opinion; it is easy in solitude to live after our own; but the great man is he who in the midst of the crowd keeps with perfect sweetness the independence of solitude. – Ralph Waldo Emerson, Self-Reliance

The world is powered by passionate people, powerful ideas, and fearless action. What’s one strong belief you possess that isn’t shared by your closest friends or family? What inspires this belief, and what have you done to actively live it?

(Author: Buster Benson)
______________________________________________________________________

I’m not certain my friends or family really differ from my views that greatly. Sure, we have little debates here and there over certain policies and religious dogmas. I try to maintain an open mind despite the fact that I am quite opinionated.

Being opinionated doesn’t mean that I think I’m right all the time. I love to toss an idea out there and see what others think. Every idea, every opinion, right or wrong, crazy or sane, has merit and has the potential to be a solution to a problem. How exciting is that? The important thing here is to always have an open mind and an open heart to others and to the germination of an idea regardless of opinion/belief.

That is why I hate the saying, “Think outside the box”. To me that suggests that we have limitations to begin with. Limitations placed on ourselves and on others stunts growth.

Focusing on that which we cannot do or how we are limited by this or that only puts up road blocks thus preventing us from freeing our mind so the real ideas can spring forth. That is why one of my strongest beliefs is that there is NO box.

I try to live by that every day – even when I am not feeling particularly creative.

What inspired this belief? The answer might shock you. My father, my mom and my grandma (Mom’s mom). I know, I know you’re thinking, “Your father?” But for all his bad qualities, there is a side or rather there was a side to him that could be very good if he chose to be. He, along with my mom and grandma always encouraged my love of reading, my imagination, my writing and to always shoot for the highest point possible and never settle for less than the best that I could do. I also blame them for my insatiable “need” to know everything/learn everything that I possibly can. LOL. It’s also one of the things I am most grateful to all three of them for.

0 Replies to “One Strong Belief”

  1. I found this touching. I like that you acknowledge that there is a part of you that is there because of your father, regardless of the sorry that he causes for you these days.

    I like the idea of “no box.” We have enough things in our day to day existence trying to pigeon-hole us. It’s up to us to break out of the walls that confine us and look around to find other experiences, ideas and inspirations.

    So, a hearty “Here! Here!” my friend!

  2. Exactly!
    I do have good memories of my father – few and far between but I choose to focus on the good things he passed on to me. I have to.

  3. I think you’re always very sensitive to the feelings of others when you speak your mind. And I’m glad you had such good role models when it came to the parts of you that make you who you are. Even with the dad thing 🙂

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *